Robert John Heaney's Obituary
Robert John Heaney, 84, of Frederick, Maryland, went to rest at the Lord’s side on October 4, 2025. He is fondly remembered for his joyful friendliness, inspiring selflessness, and profound love for his family. No one will forget his enormous heart nor his childish sense of humor.
Robert John Heaney was born in Brooklyn, NY, on March 28, 1941. He was one of five children born to proud parents, Thomas and Margaret Heaney. He graduated from Boys High Marcy Brooklyn and went on to join the US Navy, stationed in Pensacola, FL.
Mr. Heaney found true love when he met Miss Sally T. Brennan in the late 1960s. The happy couple were married on October 26, 1969, and soon brought three bundles of joy into the world. Robert, Sean, and Kellie were the apple of their father’s eye. Family meant everything to this man, and he treasured every moment he spent with his children. He was always there to teach them important life lessons and made time to coach their sporting teams and help them grow. Or the family vacations he would take them on including hitching up the pop-up trailer to explore fun locations.
As an investigator for the Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC), Robert spent many years traveling around the country to investigate financial fraud. However, he never allowed his career to take precedence over his family’s needs and special events. He always showed up with souvenirs in hand after a business trip.
In addition to being a devoted member of Derwood’s St. Francis of the Assisi church, Robert also served in various roles within the local fraternal order of the Knights of Columbus (including Grand Knight). Where he was involved in charitable work as well as helping Sally organize countless social events to bring his family and friends together to celebrate their special occasions in life.
Mr. Heaney was preceded in death by his adoring wife, Sally Heaney, and beloved son, Robert Heaney, Jr. Left to cherish his memory are his loving children, Sean Heaney and Kellie Heaney; caring daughter-in-law, Beth Heaney; elder siblings, Tommy Heaney and Joan Heaney; two amazing grandchildren, Molly and Finn Heaney; and a host of friends. His bright legacy lives on in the hearts and minds of all who knew him. Everyone who knew him has fond memories of how funny and kindhearted he was.
Robert’s life will be honored at a service on November 8, 2025, at 11:30 AM. It will take place at St. Joseph’s on Carrollton Manor (located at 5843 Manor Woods Rd. in Frederick, MD). A celebration of life will take place after as well from 12:30-3pm TBD
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